As I write, my jolly little stove burns brightly and I am glad of its warmth. There is a cold whisper through the
trees. The bright, bright, white snow has come and now it is gone again. It left behind fairy trees.
Maybe it will be back to give us a white Christmas?
For us and many others who run a small business, this year will be a frugal celebration. As a creative homemaker you
may want to remember to . . .
Keep the Magic While You Cut the Costs
Here are some suggestions of how to do it right.
- Create a Christmas budget but always allow for a margin. There will be those few extra items you want to add, just
to create the magic and to set the atmosphere of a warm and wonderful Christmas.
- You can copy the theme of our birthday club: We have four family members with birthdays close to Christmas and the
cost of presents got away from us. So we started the birthday club. We set a $10.00 limit on the gifts which we
exchanged at Thanksgiving. But that was not all. We decided all gifts had to be a used item, or bought at a yard sale
or at a flea market. I got my best item, a pair of earrings I had admired for two years from Peter’s sister. In turn
my sister bought her a set of silver thimbles found at the Rose Bowl (she is a quilter) I have no idea how much they
are worth and suspect a lot more than the $10.00 Sally paid for them, but I know she will treasure them forever.
- Some families decide just to buy gifts only for the kids.
- Another branch of our family used to do the secret Santa thing. We shared many a celebration with them up here in
the mountains before they moved to Texas. Instead of buying for everybody we would buy for only one person in the
family and the gift would be decided by drawing lots. We set the limit high for the only gift we brought to the table.
I still have a jacket I love and wear every winter. It is all of ten years old and still going strong. Those were good
- For food and drink you can have a potluck. I always end up bringing my kahlua trifle.
- A great, frugal way for you to entertain the kids for an hour or so while the women get on with it in the kitchen
is to drive around town looking at the Christmas lights. It adds a touch of magic to the day.
- You want to keep the spirit of Christmas in your home on that special day. Christmas is about loving and giving.
Check out a quaint Christmas book that reinforces this mood, from the library where it is free, and read it aloud to
- Don’t forget the mistletoe and have screams of fun and lots of hugging and kissing.
- It is wise not to let the festivities go on too long, with the energy dropping and the kids beginning to fret. As
the Creative Homemaker Hostess it is up to you to call the end of the day. It is time to end off when everybody is
still bright and bushy-tailed and having fun.
- Bring your special day to an end by having each family member share what they liked best about the year and
Christmas 2012. Record these stories so that you can re-play them or read them the following year. It will bring
continuity and love into your family. This is something good for the children.
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Some of the season's important festivities.
The story of a little monkey who thought he was a cat.
Holiday Decorating Tips.
Should we give thanks during these hard times?
Insatiable Spendifosity – with apologies to Rudyard Kipling.
Downsizing Big Brother
A Powder Keg waiting to go off
Why the GOP lost the Election.
Grandpa’s take on a dirty business.
All About Santa, Whose Pedigree Goes Back a Long, Long Way
Sinterklaas, the long robed priest with miter hat, is the European version of our jolly Santa Claus. He is linked way
back in the third century to Saint Nicholas, a popular saint cast into prison and released by Constantine the Great, the
emperor who repackaged Christianity to make it acceptable. Santa was part of the package, for he is among other things,
the patron Saint of children, bakers and merchants. See how it fits in?
How did Sinterklaas evolve into our jolly American Santa?
He is found in the charming stories of Irvine Washington, who described domestic Christmas scenes that included a
jolly, loveable rotund man with a long white beard, a red hat and Dutch knee-breeches.
Where did Christmas get its delightful character?
The word Christmas comes from the old English (Cristes Maesse) or Christ’s mass. It celebrates that Christ is born
although the actual birthday is unknown. In the repackaging of Christianity in the third century his birth was moved to
coincide with older annual year-end much loved celebrations. We borrow the caroling, the gifts, the jolly, jolly and the
wishing of good cheer from the English Charles Dickens and his “A Christmas Carol”.
Santa makes it all come together for a very special time when friends and family, Christian or not, can come together
to honor a religion of love that changed the world for the better.
Quote for the Month
"There’s nothing sadder in this world than to awake Christmas morning and not be a
~ Erma Bombeck (1927-1996), American author and humorist.
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Wishing you the joys of the season and all good things!